The Night I Met Brian May

by Joy Solomon




I went to the Greek Theater on August 25, 1995 (I'll never forget that date!!) to see Steve Miller and the Doobie Brothers concert. I went with my boyfriend and two of my friends. It was a great night. We were partying. The show was really good.

For some reason, while Steve Miller was playing Fly Like An Eagle, I looked down at the concession area where they sell drinks and food and I saw a very tall guy with long curly black hair wearing all black standing there talking to three people. It looked like people he came to the show with. For some reason, I got this really funny feeling. Now, keep in mind that I am buzzed pretty hardcore from partying at the show so I didn't say anything. I just kept looking at this guy. From where I was, he was about the size of my middle finger. My friends kept asking me what I was looking at because I wasn't looking at the stage where Steve Miller was playing. All I said was, "Wait. I'm concentraing on something." (Sounds funny, huh?)

So, anyway, there were two guys seated in front of us who were sharing their binoculars with us. When they passed it to me, I grabbed them and looked at the guy in the concession area. Then my friends and boyfriend are like, "What the HELL are you looking at?" All I kept saying was, "Leave me alone. I'm concentrating." (They probably thought I was losing it.) Well, when I looked through the binoculars, the curly-haired guy had his back to me but I could see his shoes looked funny. Oh my God!!!! They look like CLOGS!!!!

At that point, I dropped the binoculars and I said to my boyfriend in a very quick manner of speech, "I think I see Brian May down there and I have to go to look to see if it's him. You can come with me if you want but I'm going RIGHT NOW." He said he didnt want to go. At that point I said to my friend, "I think that's Brian May. Doesn't that look like him?" She says, "I have no idea but if you think it's him, it's probably him. I'll go with you." (You see, all my friends know I've LOVED Queen and Brian since I was 8. I'm now 25.) So, off we were.

We went running down all these flights of stairs. (Now, keep in mind I couldn't see his face through the binoculars because he was facing away from me but something about his shoes and his posture were giving me the feeling that it was him). So, we run down all these stairs that twist and turn and when we got down there I lost my sense of direction and didn't see him. Then I turned around and there he was. Now, his back was still towards me so I told my friend to wait here and that I would walk a big circle around him so I could see his face. At that point, I started walking around in a big circle trying not to look conscpicuous. When I got to the other side of him (at this position, I was facing my friend on the opposite side) I looked at the curly haired man and IT WAS HIM!!!!!!!

At that point, I started shaking uncontrollably. I couldn't believe what my eyes were telling me. It seemed TOTALLY UNREAL. I couldn't believe he was just standing there, no entourage, in the middle of where they sell drinks. He was not hiding or anything. So, I run around this big circle back to my friend and I said, "Holy shit! It's him. It's him. It's him!" I was shaking so bad at that point. (Now, keep in mind we're about six feet from him. My friend happens to be a Queen fan but not to the same extent that I am). So, she says to me, "Go talk to him." Well, the problem was he was talking and talking and talking to his friends and I didn't want to be rude and interrupt him so there we stood right next to him waiting for him to stop talking. (By the way, he is soooooooo tall. I'm about 5'6 and he was probably a foot taller than me). So, finally my friend pokes him on the shoulder (I couldn't believe she did that. You don't POKE MR. BRIAN MAY) and she says to him, "My friend here really needs to talk to you." I was dying. I was shaking. I couldn't believe what was happening and I was still so buzzed and I didn't want to sound like a jerk. I mean, what do you say to someone you've loved since you were a child?

At that point, he turns to me and looks at me. (I can't explain in words what was going through me at that point. A rush of emotion. I was excited and nervous and scared. I was scared because what if I opened my mouth and he was a jerk to me? It would have broken my heart. I had always heard he was nice but you never know, you know?) So, I said to him, "Brian, it's such an honor to meet you, you have no idea." (Hey, that sounded pretty good. My voice was shaking a little but not too bad). He smiled and said, "Thank you," and then he held out his hand for me to shake it. I shook his hand and as I was shaking it, I was trembling because I couldn't believe I was touching the hands that play the guitar that makes that incredible music that gets into my soul. His face started turning red. He was BLUSHING. I couldn't believe it. He has a great smile although I noticed that his teeth were a little crooked. Something I never noticed in the MILLIONS of pictures I have of him and used to stare at all the time. So, at that point my friend extends her hand and shakes his hand and says, "It's an honor for me too but not as much as it is for her."

At that point, I asked him if I could hug him. He said, "Sure. I guess so." He bent down (like I said, he's very very tall) and hugged me. At that point, I became a sponge, absorbing everything about him. I would like to say that his beautiful curly hair is extremely soft. I always thought it would be like brillo or something because it's so curly but it was soooo soft. I put my arms around him and I felt his ribs through his back. Yes, he's incredibly skinny. I was absorbing all of this in a matter of a 20 second hug. I gave him an extra long hug and squeezed him tightly. I'm sure he must have felt me trembling. At that point, I thanked him again. He thanked me and my friend and I walked away.

I didn't want to ask for autographs because I didn't want to draw attention to him if people weren't noticing him already. I didn't want him to be mobbed because of me. I really couldn't believe that no one else was noticing him. I mean, there were people standing in line to buy drinks and they weren't even looking at him. This is a Steve Miller crowd. You'd think they'd know who Brian May is. So, anyway, we went back to our seats and I said to my boyfriend, "It was him." He said, "I know. I saw." Then he asked me if it was him standing down there would I have been able to recognize him. It was funny because he was jealous. It was probably his worst nightmare come true. Who would think I'd ever actually meet this guy?

So, that's my Brian May story. After I returned to my seat, he left and went backstage and that was the end of that. So, all in all, he's a very sweet, polite, friendly guy and I'll never forget that day.




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